How to Fight a Restraining Order in Massachusetts

A restraining order can have serious effects, even if it’s civil. It can force you out of your home, restrict contact with your kids, and lead to criminal charges if violated.

In Massachusetts, restraining orders (also called 209A orders) usually begin with a temporary ex parte order. That means you’re not there when the judge first issues it. Within 10 business days, you get a chance to fight back at a hearing.

To challenge the order, you’ll need to present evidence, question the complainant’s claims, and explain why the legal standard isn’t met. It’s not enough to say it didn’t happen—you have to show why the other party’s fear isn’t reasonable or imminent.

These hearings are fast and high-stakes. I represent clients in restraining order hearings regularly, and I know how to prepare the right defense—especially when false accusations are involved.

What Is a 209A Restraining Order in Massachusetts?

A 209A restraining order is a court order designed to protect someone from domestic violence. It can order you to stay away from a person, leave your home, and surrender any firearms.

The process starts when someone files a complaint, often leading to a temporary order issued without your knowledge. Then, within about 10 days, a full hearing is scheduled where both sides present evidence.

Even though it’s technically a civil order, violating a 209A is a crime—and it can land you in jail. The order also shows up on your CORI and can affect employment, housing, and custody.

If you’ve been served with a 209A, don’t wait until the hearing to get help. I guide clients through the process and work to get unjust orders dismissed or limited.