How to Fight a Restraining Order in Massachusetts

A restraining order can have serious effects, even if it’s civil. It can force you out of your home, restrict contact with your kids, and lead to criminal charges if violated.

In Massachusetts, restraining orders (also called 209A orders) usually begin with a temporary ex parte order. That means you’re not there when the judge first issues it. Within 10 business days, you get a chance to fight back at a hearing.

To challenge the order, you’ll need to present evidence, question the complainant’s claims, and explain why the legal standard isn’t met. It’s not enough to say it didn’t happen—you have to show why the other party’s fear isn’t reasonable or imminent.

These hearings are fast and high-stakes. I represent clients in restraining order hearings regularly, and I know how to prepare the right defense—especially when false accusations are involved.